tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074631023625053699.post2278091109409143775..comments2023-10-30T11:54:24.088-04:00Comments on A Little Bit of Life: PYHO - I Don't Always Like HimDihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14097805982872810142noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074631023625053699.post-9691210180470887222011-10-01T00:05:06.484-04:002011-10-01T00:05:06.484-04:00Struggling with this right now - I know I love my ...Struggling with this right now - I know I love my guy but there are certain things that are driving me nuts. Nice to hear others say they are working on things tooBig D and Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03489109864323671073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074631023625053699.post-36775511699484927582011-09-22T11:44:21.924-04:002011-09-22T11:44:21.924-04:00This could not have come at a better time as I nea...This could not have come at a better time as I nearly murdered my husband last night for not thinking to wash the diapers and baby clothes when he went to do laundry yesterday because I didn't SPECIFICALLY tell him to. There was very nearly blood shed. It is SOOOOO DIFFICULT some days. I completely understand, and was so going to do this post! HUGS!Kakunaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09680945395324128951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074631023625053699.post-19392189241847350452011-09-22T11:03:02.466-04:002011-09-22T11:03:02.466-04:00Can I first just say - oh my gosh, you're not ...Can I first just say - oh my gosh, you're not alone!?<br /><br />Sometimes liking that other person is the hardest part of things. Loving them seems to come naturally, at least for me. But, liking them can be an entirely different story.<br /><br />Don't get me wrong - I do like my other half the majority of the time, but we do go through stages like this. Unfortunately (I guess?), it's mostly me who gets like this. It's always right when I'm overloaded with others things to worry about - work, etc. - that he decides to slack on something and it drives me crazy. <br /><br />BUT, like you, I've tried to step back now and realize that I'm overreacting. I've learned that I make it worse for myself when I react that way, too. Like if I'd just stop and think for a minute before reacting, I'd end up much happier in the end because I wouldn't end up on a guilt trip later that night, too... <br /><br />So happy to see a couple that knows it's hard work, but they're willing to do it! <br /><br />xoxoJessica @ My Simply Complicatedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03319496051391955227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074631023625053699.post-35036623944731311302011-09-22T10:54:38.231-04:002011-09-22T10:54:38.231-04:00I've said many times to my husband- or at leas...I've said many times to my husband- or at least thought it- that I love him, but I don't like him.<br /><br />Especially during that first year after we had our first. B/c it was SO hard making the adjustment. <br /><br />Sounds like you are doing the right things to push through, though. It gets easier, really. xoShellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06811697675090627618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074631023625053699.post-5883152917920671822011-09-22T07:55:18.501-04:002011-09-22T07:55:18.501-04:00One day at a time.... you will both make it, I jus...One day at a time.... you will both make it, I just know it. Its an adjustment and there will come a day where you will look back and laugh at all this. <br /><br />I agree with Renegades, Thank you goes a long, long way.Kismahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05457391863350629238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074631023625053699.post-16507043636409847042011-09-21T19:45:40.763-04:002011-09-21T19:45:40.763-04:00Yeah, the years with kids are tough on marriage, e...Yeah, the years with kids are tough on marriage, especially an infant! Take it slow and work hard!Sara @ Domestically Challengedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10245599062507705190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074631023625053699.post-46509692435870660262011-09-21T18:08:16.948-04:002011-09-21T18:08:16.948-04:00I have been a SAHM and now I'm going back to w...I have been a SAHM and now I'm going back to work. I've been responsible for the running of the house for the years I've been home and I can tell it's gonna take some kind asking to get my husband in the habit of helping out.<br /><br />Thank you goes a long long way.Renegadeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06163174457617218700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074631023625053699.post-44101827106738253622011-09-21T16:36:32.107-04:002011-09-21T16:36:32.107-04:00Completely feel for you & agree with you here!...Completely feel for you & agree with you here! The same thing happens over at our house, some days it takes everything not to punch Skyler in the head while he is asleep for all the crap he's forgotten (chosen not) to do.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13698613016204055122noreply@blogger.com